Aksara For Arsyilla
All the Special Love Journey
Gathering with a large family makes Arsyilla and Aksara realize that each couple has a special love story. Just like Papa Radit and Mama Khaira who met again at Old Trafford Stadium. Pinangan which began without love, in fact it made Papa Radit to fly to Manchester. He broke his wife's heart, and started everything back from scratch.
While the Father of Bhishma who would accept Mother Kanaya who had previously been married to Darren Jaya Wardhana. The father of Bhishma actually proved that he will always be there for Mother Kanaya, holding the hand of Mother Kanaya and continue to accompany until now. When the day of cloudy covers came to them, the hand of the Father of Bhishma continued to strengthen. When the day with bright sunlight, the Father of Bhishma also always holds the hand of Mother Kanaya.
“All families have their love story, just like Papa Radit and Dad himself. I also believe you and Syilla also began to climb the love story of the two of you,”, said Father Bisma this time.
Slowly Aksara nodded her head, “Iya Dad .. only we still have to learn from Dad and Papa. Our journey is still very early, still need to draw experience from Father and Papa,” Aksara said.
“In the household that Papa and Mama always do the philosophy of five candles,” said Papa Radit this time.
“How is Pa?” tanya Aksara who felt so interested in what her Papa was about to say.
"So the household is like the parable of four candles, Mas. Where each candle has its own philosophy. The first candle is peace, this candle can be extinguished because humans can not keep it. The second candle is faith, this candle can be extinguished because keeping the faith is very difficult. The third candle is love, but love can be extinguished because of lack of trust and betrayal. The fourth candle is hope. Hope is the only thing that can live and live the other three candles. The household should begin with a feeling of peace from both of our hearts, based on faith, and lived with love. When peace, faith, and love begin to falter, remember we still have hope of reviving that peace, faith, and love. Hope will not be lost, hope will not be in vain, because hope is like anchors. And who can keep these four candles burning and not going to go out?"
Papa Radit explained everything in length and width. While many listened to Papa Radit's explanation so seriously.
The script also replicates by nodding his head, the man looking serious as Papa Radit explains the philosophy of the candle.
"That can keep the candles burning is husband and wife" Aksara said.
"Right, exactly. You two have to work together and keep that flame burning. Don't put it out" replied Papa Radit.
"Pak Radit is so cool that he can philosophize" said Bisma's father who at that time also listened to the explanation of the Besannya.
Slowly Papa Radit shook his head, "That's the first wife to explain it to me, Mr. Bhishma. Not from myself. Sometimes I think it's a good thing I met my mother's children. A faithful woman who always supported me. A meek mother and so wise for both my children" replied Papa Radit.
"True Mr. Radit .. I did too. I am both grateful and fortunate to have Kanaya in my life. Great woman, to be a wife, partner, and also Mother to Aksara and Rangga. Although in the past, our lives fell apart especially when we lost the Script of childhood, we were able to survive this far solely because of God alone. Household if you can understand each other and join hands it will be easier to live," said Father Bisma this time.
While young children such as Aksara, Arshaka, and Airlangga seem to hear stories full of advice and the value of life.
“Pardon us Mr. Radit .. for not telling us that Aksara is already with us,” reply Father Bhishma.
“It's okay Mr. Bisma. Behind all that I and my wife are grateful because Aksara has met his biological parents,” Papa Radit replied.
“Papa Radit and Dad have known since long ago yah?” ask Rangga suddenly.
“Not really, Rangga .. actually when Mas Aksara disappeared first, Papa Radit's family who loved Mas Aksara so much and sent Masmu to Elementary School, even years after Papa Radit and Mama Mbak Arsyilla still give monthly money to Mas Aksara,” story Father Bisma this time.
“Oh, so ... so Mas Aksara already know Msk Arsyilla from small dong yah?” ask Rangga again.
“From Mbak Arsyilla as small as Ara,” reply Father Bhishma.
Rangga. Didn't expect that the meeting of his Brother and his Sister-in-law had already happened even when they were so small. How could her sister have found Arsyilla again when she was an adult and married her.
“Keren really, Mas,” said Rangga this time.
While Aksara seemed to nod her head, and was also a little embarrassed when her past with Arsyilla was re-told. What Father Bhishma said was true, he had seen and known Arsyilla when his wife was Ara's age now.
“Maybe it was indeed our love journey both. Meet as children, and unite in marriage after adulthood. From the story of the two of us and also the father and Papa, Aksara is sure that the journey of love each person is different. Some are full of happiness, some are full of struggle, the liking is different. But the key can always be together and face every problem,” said Aksara.
“True Aksa, if only see our shortcomings and problems. What we see is the magnitude of the problem. However, if you want to change our point of view, seeing the problem is something that God allows to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife, find solutions and solve it, it is much better is not it?” sahut Papa Radit's.
“Agree Pa... because all households have their own problems. Those who can maintain the household are those who are willing to fight, solve problems, join hands to always be together is every season of our lives,” said Aksara.
It is entirely true what the Scriptures say that love has its own way. There are straight and unhindered roads, but there are also those that have steep and winding roads. The main thing is that all the roads are to face it, live it, and try to go through the journey that we take for life in a path called Household.