
I was so busy playing hp until I didn't realize the clock was showing at one o'clock in the afternoon.I put the phone on the pillow and went out of the room to prepare lunch.
When I arrived in the kitchen I saw Aunt Ida cutting a carrot.
"What is Aunt Ida cooking?" much
"Aunties want to cook vegetables, do they like to eat vegetables that are sauteed?"
"i've never cooked stir-fried vegetables, I cook meat the most, you know, because I don't really understand the kitchen spices" I said
"hihihi, cook you already married yet understand about the kitchen, yu, yu, we as women should be able to cook so that our husbands do not need to eat outside"
"hehehe, this aunt, besides I don't really know their favorite food"
"yes, Aunt just try to cook vegetables on stir-fry, the same fish in the plecing, who knows they like" said Aunt Ida
"want me to help you?" I asked
"no need, cook the mute report-report"
"hhh Aunt, I'm not a bitch"
"hihihi, have you been mending see aunty, let you understand the spices of the kitchen"
"yes, I have seen it"
I saw Aunt Ida cooking, so I knew what spices were used to cook stir-fry vegetables. It's been an hour Aunt Ida cooking, I've been cooking, finally all the food is ready and ready to serve for lunch.
I helped Aunt Ida bring food to the dining table.
"yahhh, lunch is over" I shouted
Dad came and sat down, I got rice and side dishes for my father-in-law.
I told Aunt Ida to sit down and eat with us, because I also considered Aunt Ida like my own family.
"Tante ate with yuk" I said
"no, aunt eats in the kitchen"
"ihh Aunty, consider it aunty's house, right yah" I said
"what ayu said, after all we will eat only two here, so there is still an empty bench, you just eat with us" said the father-in-law
"hehe, yes if you allow me to eat together, I can not refuse" said Aunt Ida
Although Aunt Ida was only a maid in my in-laws' house, I was happy to be able to live with her, because she was the one who taught me to walk when I was 3 years old.
My mother often told me about Aunt Ida, who was willing to not work to take care of me, because when I was a child she was very busy making cakes.
Aunt Ida was like a second mother to me, because she loved me as much as she loved her own child.
After we finished lunch, I helped Aunt Ida clean up our used plates earlier.
"Tante, it's homework done, mending Aunt come with me to the yard" I said
"why are you taking Aunt to the yard?"
"you want to confide" Aunt Ida asked again
"yes, I confide, because you're not here, I'm confused about who to tell you"
"what do you tell me, Auntie is ready to be a good listener and will help find a solution to your problem"
"hehe, thank you Auntie, yes let's go to the front page"
I sat on the swing with Aunt Ida, telling her about my grievances during my time at my in-laws' house, I dared to tell her about my household, because I believed in Aunt Ida.
"so Auntie, it's that I'm married, but Auntie you know, my husband never asked me to serve him in bed like a married couple in general"
"what is it?, cook anyway there is a man who is married but does not want to have sex with his wife"
"yes Aunt, my husband does not want to have sex with me, while my father-in-law wants a grandson from me and my husband, I will be confused"
"mmmmm, how could that be, have you ever tried to make him so passionate?" aunty Ida
"meaning Aunt?" I asked
"yes you never open all your clothes in front of him, or don't hug him when you sleep together"
"no" I answered
"you try it, gini ya yu, a wife is obliged to serve her husband, let alone it is a matter of body relations, it is a thing that the prophet recommends to married couples, who are married, serving the lust of a husband is worship for a wife, especially if you serve her without her asking"
"that's Auntie, but if my husband refuses how?"
"hihihihi, my goodness, which man refused to do *** with his wife"
"Farhan doesn't want a real aunt, not Farhan I don't actually want to do that with my husband"
"you're both weird, sorry about your father-in-law, hoping to get a grandchild out of you"
"my aunt was confused too"
"what makes you confused, gini yu, a wife is a place for a husband to vent his lust, because his wife is a halal woman for him to sleep with, anyways what do you want if your husband sleeps with that woman out there"
"that's better, so I don't have to bother serving my husband" I said innocently
"so, don't you have the slightest bit of heartache if you know that your husband sleeps with another woman?"
"that's Auntie's right, if she wants it to be okay, she doesn't feel the same about me anyway"
"yu, Dengerin Aunt, it is your husband's right, but you as a wife must remind him, cook yes your husband sleeps with other women you are silent, even if you do not love your husband, you do not love him, he remains a legitimate husband in the eyes of law and religion, god created a partner not only to unite in the world, in the hereafter as well"
Hearing the words of Aunt Ida made my heart feel uneasy, I have neglected my obligation as a wife, even though it has become my duty to serve my husband.
"yes Aunt, thank you Aunt has given me useful advice for me in the future"
"sama, you are already considered like a Aunt's own child, it is Aunt's duty to guide you and rebuke if you make a mistake"
I hugged Aunt Ida with teary eyes, the woman in front of me who was 40 years old gave me a very important knowledge to apply in my household.
The household I built without love, the husband who had not accepted me as his wife, made me a strong woman and steadfastly lived it all.