Me And You For Us
Tekad Kandara's.

...~Happy Reading~...

After returning home, Ms. Selvine prepared a hot drink for the two of them. Because according to Bu Selvine, determination must be accompanied by strong energy. To be able to carry out that determination.

Ms. Selvine invited Kandara to sit at the dinner table for a hot drink she had made and also to eat the bread she had made this morning.

After they finished eating and drinking, they began to speak from heart to heart. Bu Selvine slowly forgets her disappointment to Kandara and tries to calm down to share her experience while pregnant.

"Because, the future of your life will not be easy, especially with your condition. Mama didn't mean to discourage you, but this is the reality you have to face." Said Mrs Selvine starting their conversation.

"A pregnant woman in marriage is not easy, especially like you. You have to be a mother and a father to your children." Kandara lowered her head and heard in silence.

"Mom knows, you're a smart kid. It will be easy to understand and understand what you are saying. Mama will keep reminding you, so listen carefully to everything you say." Said Ms. Selvine again, because she realized, Kandara was surprised by her condition, but she was trying hard.

"Pregnancy is not a job, like your job. Where you can easily finish your office work. You can't plan or organize as your heart desires."

"When pregnant, body condition and emotions are often unstable. Everything is always fickle, and you have to learn to stay good in every condition."

"When you think, speak or act, you can no longer think of yourself. Everything you have will be connected and absorbed by your children. So you've got to be careful when you think and say something."

"Because it is not only food that your children absorb, but all your thoughts, feelings and moods will be absorbed by them. Because you're always connected."

"If you want to be angry, you can't put them where they used to be and then get angry, then after that just give them back again. You'll carry them wherever you go. So you have to take extra care of your thoughts, feelings and moods." Said Ms. Selvine while looking at Kandara who was still quietly bowed.

"A child has learned about ethics and life behavior from his mother, since she was in the womb. What they'll look like, you'll have to teach them since they're inside you."

"There are parents who say that later after their child is born and understand, then they teach their children about many things. But for my mom, it's not so. A child has learned since he lived. And they've been living since their mother's womb."

"So all the decisions you make for their lives will be, think about it. What they will be, what they will be, you have begun to direct and teach them since they are in your womb."

"Mama can only help teach them, when they have been born. Before that, only you can do it. Mama believes you've been able to educate them well since they've been in you. Because you're a good Mama's son." Miss Selvine's words made Kandara's eyes dewy.

"Mama is with you, accepting and supporting all your decisions. Mama will help take care of your children, your grandchildren." Said Mrs Selvine with dewy eyes.

...°-° One's experience will mean, if can be able to inspire others °-°...

Ms. Selvine held and stroked Kandara's hand in front of her affectionately and warmly. "So don't feel guilty about anyone. Do not feel insulted by anyone's words. So that your children grow up to be confident, not inferior to others."

"Since they are still in your womb, they are not only acquainted with parents, environment or relatives. But first and foremost they must be acquainted with their Lord." Ms. Selvine said seriously, but looked at Kandara fondly.

"Tell them to know God well and correctly. Teach them to fear God. For it is God who gives life to them." Said Ms. Selvine while continuing to look at Kandara fondly.

"Every often read the Bible, sing and pray. It must be taught at all times, that they may be accustomed and understood at birth and grow up in His guidance and protection." Said Mrs Selvine, slowly.

Kandara listened to everything her Mama said with a kind heart, overflowing with gratitude, for having such a great Mama. "Yeah Ma, makasiii..." Kandara stood up and hugged Mama tightly from behind and placed her chin on Mama's shoulder.

Kandara could only thank Bu Selvine for everything she did for him. Because in his condition, he was still shocked and not ready mentally. Therefore, what Bu Selvine said opened up new insights for him. Want it or not, he has to do it.

Kandara sat down again, remembering her work at the office. "Ooh yeah, Ma. Dara will talk to Mr. Ari. If you can't work anymore, Dara resigns. Will Dara be able to help you work at the boutique for a while?" Kandara asked considering the rules of the company where she worked.

"Yeah, I could. But if you're at home in the meantime, no papa. You can take good care of your pregnancy. We can still live off of boutique income." Said Ms. Selvine understanding Kandara's intentions.

"But it would be nice too, you've got busy. Don't just stay home. Not good for the development and health of your children." Said Mrs Selvine, thinking.

"Because you're a programmer, maybe you can work from home. Maybe you can make an app or the Web from home. You can talk about that with Mala and Toby." Said Mrs Selvine giving me an idea.

"Yeah, Mom. Later after talking with Mr. Ari and hearing his decision, Dara spoke with Mas Mala and Mas Toby." Said Kandara understood his mother's intent.

"Yeah, the important thing is that you have to be busy. Because when you work, your kids learn what you do, too." Said Bu Selvine again, and Kandara nodded in understanding.

Kandara has gotten the job idea from her conversation with her Mama. If later not allowed to work in the company again, he already knows what he will do during pregnancy and when his children are young.

Kandara is able to think well and focus. So that during her pregnancy she can still work, do what and still make money for the needs of her children.

Ms. Selvine and Kandara ended their day and conversation by giving up all the conditions that were being experienced in the plan and the inclusion of God.

They prayed together with hearts deeply moved. Especially Kandara, because she realized things wouldn't be easy. Her tears flowed while praying.

...°-° Experience is a good teacher, but an experienced Mother is the best teacher °-°...

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